by crashdavis16 » Thu Feb 19, 2009 2:27 am
First of all, I would like to make the point that unlike you, I do not opt for the anonymity that this board provides. Fans have been sending letters and making phone calls to officials for years and this is just a new way to add frustration to an already difficult job. This is Ben Schafer, and I was not a member of this board until I received a text that said I was popular on ndpreps.com. I had to ask where to even find the information because I normally do not look at sites such as this. Cometdad, while it is possible that you are well intentioned, this is not the way to go about what you are attempting to accomplish. High School sports are meant to promote sportsmanship, citizenship and ethics. Judging by the comments you have made I am not sure that you understand that. I am a teacher because I enjoy working with kids, I coach because I enjoy working with kids, I referee because I enjoy working with kids, and I hope to be a father someday because I truly enjoy kids. I would never, ever, ever, ever make a call based on where I am from or who I know. I wouldn’t have consistently received postseason tournaments in 3 different sports, in three different areas of the state had I played favorites on the court or field. I just plain do not do it.
Ninety-nine percent of fans were looking at the shot when the foul that I saw occurred, the right leg of the comet player swept into the left leg of the other player which I felt caused the ensuing contact. People only saw the contact on the upper part of the bodies that happened as a result of that contact. It is possible that I saw the play incorrectly, but I called it with no prejudice, bias or whatever you would like to accuse me of. That said, I realize that you have written two positive comments about my officiating as well.
Missed calls happen to every official from time to time (Remember the Superbowl a few years ago?) even with people who are paid over $100,000 per year to do the job. Mind you, I am not admitting to being wrong on the call...I called what I felt was right. The fans were pretty quiet about the officiating until quarter number four. Maybe because the pressure was ratcheted up?
This is not at all to start an argument or to continue banter on the subject; I will not be posting any more replies to this thread. However, think about this for a second; how many coaches scream and yell at kids like they used to? Very few coaches is the correct answer. Who do you think is going to be officiating games for years to come? Is it going to be the kids who don’t like being yelled at by a coach? I sure enjoy working with them, but there are a lot of 50 and overs out there officiating. How many guys my age are working regularly? Numbers will continue to be a problem in officiating because we have to deal with junk like this.
WHY use my name? Just say “an official” if you NEED to make this comment. Why attempt to push an official, who by your own admission is “one of the better refs around,” out of the business because of one call? What potential good can come from a comment like that? Could you possibly follow the guidelines set forth by the site: “Please do not post just to complain about players, coaches, teams, officials, fans, or anyone else. Lets all try to demonstrate the spirit of good sportsmanship.”
I just ask that you be a fan of the kids and leave the refs alone until you are willing to dawn a shirt and whistle. Possibly then you would know how seriously we officials take our vocation.