by fbinnd » Tue May 01, 2007 10:56 am
First, noone believes that kids should have to stay in one place for the rest of their lives. But, like you said a couple of posts ago: walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, must be a duck.
So let me show that I can have at least SOME common sense here.
1st: Kid's going to private school and parents can't afford it anymore=I have no problem with the transfer and immediate eligibility.
2nd: Kid being harrassed in school=I have no problem with the transfer and immediate eligibility.
In either of these cases, though, a case needs to be presented to NDHSAA and the HSAA needs to grant the immediate eligibility. Why? Well, like you said, kids bouncing around like ping-pong balls crafted our system. When people abuse the system, its the people that need it that pay the price. We have to now make sure that the kid is not transferring just to play sports, but for legitimate need.
I have a problem with the male coach/female player issue. A girl can't just claim harrassment and be allowed to transfer. The Duke lacrosse case should be an easy explanation why. If a girl wants out, all she has to do is claim something against her male coach, and she will be allowed to transfer. If nothing happened, she shouldn't be allowed to transfer, and if something really did happen, she shouldn't have to. The coach should be thrown out, which would fix the problem.
Now, there's the issue of "if the coach gets thrown out because of her, she'll be harrassed, and that's a reason for leaving". I can understand that, but if she claims harrassment, and nothing ever happened, and the coach is not fired, she shouldn't be allowed to transfer, even with the harrassment claim. That's too easy an out for anyone.
ND is not large enough to be completely inflexible with it's rules. We can take the time to evaluate. But what was talked about with the "change of scenery" had little to do with harrassment, financial downturn, or sexual depravity. "Change of scenery" meant, "I'm just sick of this coach, and sick of this town, and I want out because of me". In ND, you go right ahead and change schools, but you're not playing just because you want a "change of scenery". Wanting a new coach or new friends or more wins or more attention is not a "need" for a student. Students need opportunities. At some point, they need to learn that you don't get everything you want. A system that allows for a "change of scenery" transfer teaches a kid that he/she will get whatever whenever. That's not the lesson high school athletics is designed to teach.
If having to choose between allowing transfers for any reason or discontinuing all high school athletics, I would choose discontinuing high school athletics. If kids can do whatever they want whenever they want, there are no skills being taught, and the kids would be better off spending that time in the classroom, at a job, or in the field.